Question been asked: Love Or Lust?
My Answer: EXTRA LUST + ABUNDANCE (loads of, great quantity) LECHERY (lewd & lustful behavior) = PATHETIC (sad, pitiable, useless) + CONTEMPTIBLE (shameful, disgraceful, distasteful) + DESPICABLE (shameful, disgraceful)
There are lots of stories of a sweet betrayal out there and some of them I know.I smile when I see the betrayed husband or betrayed fiancée…. I smiled because I know them by name and manners. Yes I smile but deep down me I cursed. I cursed at them a lot…its decibel perceptible only to my own heart.. Nauzubillah….i said to myself…I hope this wont happened to me…otherwise the volcanic eruption might occur at the highest scalar Richter can’t even think about…ahaks! agaknye la kut...tak tau la part 'final result' ni because tidak melalui nye sendiri... =)
p/s this is just my own personal opinion...peace! (V)
Showing posts with label girls. Show all posts
Showing posts with label girls. Show all posts
May 22, 2009
Jan 22, 2009
My status...
My YM and FB status for today is --> puas hati borong alat makeup! pelik kan? ^_^
and i dont aspect so many comments due to this status tho!
which of course I received from my beloved friends! ^_^
by the way, that shows actually all my friends are aware of me =p
THANKS to all then! hehee...
but here I put one conversation with one of my 'aware' friend...happy reading!
brian: ahaha...can't stop laughing reading your status
ika_zul: hehehehee.....why? why?
brian: because ika yang aku kenal tak banyak pakai make up
ika_zul: heheeee...just assume now i've changed, now i suddenly want to wear make up
brian: ahaha... exactly.. that's the funny part
ika_zul: why funny!?
brian: ehehe... kidding laa, ika..it's not that funny,it just sounds "strange"
ika_zul: alaaaa....actually ika sudah lama mau makeup
ika_zul: dan sudah lama survey segala makeup yang ada
ika_zul: dan sudah cuba semua makeup yang famous
ika_zul: dan sekarang ika sudah jumpa yang memuaskan hati
ika_zul: makanya mulakan aja dengan membeli =D
brian: yaaa... tapi ika tak cocok laa...rock climbing pakai make up.. =p
ika_zul: ahahahahhaaa! dont worry, ika cuma makeup natural aja la
brian: ehehe... good good..
ika_zul: hari ini semua colleagues di ofis juga suddenly menyatakan kenapa ika nampak cantik hari ini
ika_zul: sedangkan mereka tidak sedar yang ika makeup! haaaa.....
ika_zul: baguskan ika makeup, so natural tapi nampak lebih ceria mungkin =p heee...
brian: oh iya? aku mau lihat ika dengan make up...can't wait to see
brian: but natural make up still count as make up
ika_zul: nothing special la, but i do feel special for myself =)
brian: yeah, you should, you are
brian: btw, busy, huh?
ika_zul: not really today, usually i'll be in Celcom petaling jaya office, but today i'm in my office in sri petaling
ika_zul: lazy to go to celcom PJ, there's no food there
ika_zul: well, u know that i'm always hungry
brian: umm... you are so "mobile"
brian: ya, that's funny fact #2 about ika, in that tiny body she always feel hungry
brian: ehehe.. ya ya.. I came to your blog several times, quite a lot I think
brian: hey, the last post, about what a man wants
brian: ya, itu betul laa...actually you made me think, you know, about what I really want
ika_zul: i'm glad with that
brian: so, siapa bilang tu?
ika_zul: somebody, and plus with my thought also
ika_zul: by the way, it's actually a conclusion from answers i got from guys
brian: ehehe... that's good
ika_zul: of cos that's good, see, it able to make u think of what u really want!
brian: yeah.. sebab everybody is talking about the same thing
brian: yeah you know, love, marriage, family, kids etc etc
ika_zul: yup yup
brian: and then those all just make me think...contemplate
brian: so sekarang you're doing nothing ya? boleh chatting2? ahaha
ika_zul: i'm doing small jobs now, so chatting is not a problem by this time
brian: ehehe... so we'd better get back to our real job then
ika_zul: ok then, daaa.....
brian: happy make up-ing! =D
and i dont aspect so many comments due to this status tho!
which of course I received from my beloved friends! ^_^
by the way, that shows actually all my friends are aware of me =p
THANKS to all then! hehee...
but here I put one conversation with one of my 'aware' friend...happy reading!
brian: ahaha...can't stop laughing reading your status
ika_zul: hehehehee.....why? why?
brian: because ika yang aku kenal tak banyak pakai make up
ika_zul: heheeee...just assume now i've changed, now i suddenly want to wear make up
brian: ahaha... exactly.. that's the funny part
ika_zul: why funny!?
brian: ehehe... kidding laa, ika..it's not that funny,it just sounds "strange"
ika_zul: alaaaa....actually ika sudah lama mau makeup
ika_zul: dan sudah lama survey segala makeup yang ada
ika_zul: dan sudah cuba semua makeup yang famous
ika_zul: dan sekarang ika sudah jumpa yang memuaskan hati
ika_zul: makanya mulakan aja dengan membeli =D
brian: yaaa... tapi ika tak cocok laa...rock climbing pakai make up.. =p
ika_zul: ahahahahhaaa! dont worry, ika cuma makeup natural aja la
brian: ehehe... good good..
ika_zul: hari ini semua colleagues di ofis juga suddenly menyatakan kenapa ika nampak cantik hari ini
ika_zul: sedangkan mereka tidak sedar yang ika makeup! haaaa.....
ika_zul: baguskan ika makeup, so natural tapi nampak lebih ceria mungkin =p heee...
brian: oh iya? aku mau lihat ika dengan make up...can't wait to see
brian: but natural make up still count as make up
ika_zul: nothing special la, but i do feel special for myself =)
brian: yeah, you should, you are
brian: btw, busy, huh?
ika_zul: not really today, usually i'll be in Celcom petaling jaya office, but today i'm in my office in sri petaling
ika_zul: lazy to go to celcom PJ, there's no food there
ika_zul: well, u know that i'm always hungry
brian: umm... you are so "mobile"
brian: ya, that's funny fact #2 about ika, in that tiny body she always feel hungry
brian: ehehe.. ya ya.. I came to your blog several times, quite a lot I think
brian: hey, the last post, about what a man wants
brian: ya, itu betul laa...actually you made me think, you know, about what I really want
ika_zul: i'm glad with that
brian: so, siapa bilang tu?
ika_zul: somebody, and plus with my thought also
ika_zul: by the way, it's actually a conclusion from answers i got from guys
brian: ehehe... that's good
ika_zul: of cos that's good, see, it able to make u think of what u really want!
brian: yeah.. sebab everybody is talking about the same thing
brian: yeah you know, love, marriage, family, kids etc etc
ika_zul: yup yup
brian: and then those all just make me think...contemplate
brian: so sekarang you're doing nothing ya? boleh chatting2? ahaha
ika_zul: i'm doing small jobs now, so chatting is not a problem by this time
brian: ehehe... so we'd better get back to our real job then
ika_zul: ok then, daaa.....
brian: happy make up-ing! =D
Jan 12, 2008
why he...? [2]
Why 'He simply doesn't call?'...let's say...:
~guys often show their feelings in can be say less 'direct' ways, instead of simply saying and expressing how they feel.
~most guys are more conscious of DOING things rather than relate to anything on emotional level.
~so, when it comes to guy and dating, just look at his actions and behaviors as the indiction of his inside feeling.
~so, read the guys by what they DO instead of what they SAY.
hhmmm...what else can I say...guy only calls girl that he likes every once in a while to keep the connection open, and at the same time making sure not to spend too much time or show her too many signs of interest that might indicate he would want a more serious relationship! =) So, if a guy isn't calling and you'd like him to call more and to grow in your relationship together, it really doesn't matter WHY! huhuuu...
p/s REMINDER! jangan pulak sebab he doesn't call you then make you calling him and taking on upset and hurt that he hasn't called or any other needy, clingy, or overly emotional actions that will make he thinking you'd be nothing but a pain if he want to get to know you and involved in a real relationship with you! walla!
p/s2 For girls, why don't we start to learn the actions that can develope the feeling of ATTRACTION inside a guy ;) heehee...tau tak how to do so?
~guys often show their feelings in can be say less 'direct' ways, instead of simply saying and expressing how they feel.
~most guys are more conscious of DOING things rather than relate to anything on emotional level.
~so, when it comes to guy and dating, just look at his actions and behaviors as the indiction of his inside feeling.
~so, read the guys by what they DO instead of what they SAY.
hhmmm...what else can I say...guy only calls girl that he likes every once in a while to keep the connection open, and at the same time making sure not to spend too much time or show her too many signs of interest that might indicate he would want a more serious relationship! =) So, if a guy isn't calling and you'd like him to call more and to grow in your relationship together, it really doesn't matter WHY! huhuuu...
p/s REMINDER! jangan pulak sebab he doesn't call you then make you calling him and taking on upset and hurt that he hasn't called or any other needy, clingy, or overly emotional actions that will make he thinking you'd be nothing but a pain if he want to get to know you and involved in a real relationship with you! walla!
p/s2 For girls, why don't we start to learn the actions that can develope the feeling of ATTRACTION inside a guy ;) heehee...tau tak how to do so?
why he...? [1]
MEMO: Amir, I got new case to handle...maybe u can help me thou! hehehee... ^_^
Psst..actually this kinda Q always been asked by girls especially in early time of any relationship...
Q:
~why this guy looks like hard to contact me again after some happy dates!?
~I do think we do like each other...but why in-between dates I don't hear from him?
~is that so much for him to pick up the phone and ask me how I am?
~Is it too soon to expect something? Am I asking too much?
A: hhmm...how to explain in a simple way ya...
actually, first, 'long time' for she doesn't means the same for he, by the way, there is no 'time' in a guy's mind! furthermore, 'dating' for she maybe not enough for he to think of it as 'dating' - uncertain dating stage. Generally, this maybe due to his attention and focus is on something else like busy with works, thinking of parents or family, nonetheless FUTURE! ok girls...faham!faham! kite pun sama kan...but actually...different! in this kind of situation, she'll become frustrated and bothered why he is like this and keep on whishing he would change.
The mindset she has right now can make he sees she as too demanding, apetah lagi kalau she has started talking about all her feelings of disappointments! and this will not go over well thou! So, instead of sitting around disappointed that he hasn't met she's expectation - agaknya he tak tau langsung, or tak faham pun! - she should started thinking about how to take responsibility to create the response she want from he :) - in a correct way so that he doesn't expects 'she's asking too much!' it's like an idea in communicating with he in a way that can creates attraction inside of him...hmm...cemne ea? by this level, firstly, she has to stop thinking just by her own way or behavior - has to make some differences like stop asking him too much for
what you want nor hoping that he 'meets
your demands' - otherwise this will 100% guarantee he won't want to give you what you're looking for...betul! inilah beza 'ego she' ngan 'ego he'.
Ceh! cam tak adil je bunyi nye as she looks like has to susah2 usaha sorang2 plak! for us girls memang la fikir camni, but for guys, ini adalah menarik! alaaa...same as kalau kite girls tengok guys do the same, usaha, kan menarik jugak bagi kite :p tak gitu? It's just that the ways in how to develope great situation/relationship are different between she and he...and these differences yang kalau salah faham or tak clear maka available to lead to 'fight'. Whatever sekalipun, just remember, don't do something that can KILLS the attraction of both might be feeling for each other.
Oh! need to stop...will be continue soon!
p/s be honest about what you want
p/s2 kan aku dah cakap dari dulu lagi, same jer both she and he...kan Amir! ^_^
p/s3 pening plak aku nak menulis bila campur bahasa ni, membawa kpd salah faham tatabahasa.
Psst..actually this kinda Q always been asked by girls especially in early time of any relationship...
Q:
~why this guy looks like hard to contact me again after some happy dates!?
~I do think we do like each other...but why in-between dates I don't hear from him?
~is that so much for him to pick up the phone and ask me how I am?
~Is it too soon to expect something? Am I asking too much?
A: hhmm...how to explain in a simple way ya...
actually, first, 'long time' for she doesn't means the same for he, by the way, there is no 'time' in a guy's mind! furthermore, 'dating' for she maybe not enough for he to think of it as 'dating' - uncertain dating stage. Generally, this maybe due to his attention and focus is on something else like busy with works, thinking of parents or family, nonetheless FUTURE! ok girls...faham!faham! kite pun sama kan...but actually...different! in this kind of situation, she'll become frustrated and bothered why he is like this and keep on whishing he would change.
The mindset she has right now can make he sees she as too demanding, apetah lagi kalau she has started talking about all her feelings of disappointments! and this will not go over well thou! So, instead of sitting around disappointed that he hasn't met she's expectation - agaknya he tak tau langsung, or tak faham pun! - she should started thinking about how to take responsibility to create the response she want from he :) - in a correct way so that he doesn't expects 'she's asking too much!' it's like an idea in communicating with he in a way that can creates attraction inside of him...hmm...cemne ea? by this level, firstly, she has to stop thinking just by her own way or behavior - has to make some differences like stop asking him too much for
what you want nor hoping that he 'meets
your demands' - otherwise this will 100% guarantee he won't want to give you what you're looking for...betul! inilah beza 'ego she' ngan 'ego he'.
Ceh! cam tak adil je bunyi nye as she looks like has to susah2 usaha sorang2 plak! for us girls memang la fikir camni, but for guys, ini adalah menarik! alaaa...same as kalau kite girls tengok guys do the same, usaha, kan menarik jugak bagi kite :p tak gitu? It's just that the ways in how to develope great situation/relationship are different between she and he...and these differences yang kalau salah faham or tak clear maka available to lead to 'fight'. Whatever sekalipun, just remember, don't do something that can KILLS the attraction of both might be feeling for each other.
Oh! need to stop...will be continue soon!
p/s be honest about what you want
p/s2 kan aku dah cakap dari dulu lagi, same jer both she and he...kan Amir! ^_^
p/s3 pening plak aku nak menulis bila campur bahasa ni, membawa kpd salah faham tatabahasa.
Jan 11, 2008
Come on guys!!
ahahahaa...I've received this 'data sheet' from someone, walla...no matter what, guys will keep on searching for girls okay...! and so do vice versa ;)
