why he...? [1]

MEMO: Amir, I got new case to handle...maybe u can help me thou! hehehee... ^_^

Psst..actually this kinda Q always been asked by girls especially in early time of any relationship...
Q:
~why this guy looks like hard to contact me again after some happy dates!?
~I do think we do like each other...but why in-between dates I don't hear from him?
~is that so much for him to pick up the phone and ask me how I am?
~Is it too soon to expect something? Am I asking too much?

A: hhmm...how to explain in a simple way ya...
actually, first, 'long time' for she doesn't means the same for he, by the way, there is no 'time' in a guy's mind! furthermore, 'dating' for she maybe not enough for he to think of it as 'dating' - uncertain dating stage. Generally, this maybe due to his attention and focus is on something else like busy with works, thinking of parents or family, nonetheless FUTURE! ok girls...faham!faham! kite pun sama kan...but actually...different! in this kind of situation, she'll become frustrated and bothered why he is like this and keep on whishing he would change.

The mindset she has right now can make he sees she as too demanding, apetah lagi kalau she has started talking about all her feelings of disappointments! and this will not go over well thou! So, instead of sitting around disappointed that he hasn't met she's expectation - agaknya he tak tau langsung, or tak faham pun! - she should started thinking about how to take responsibility to create the response she want from he :) - in a correct way so that he doesn't expects 'she's asking too much!' it's like an idea in communicating with he in a way that can creates attraction inside of him...hmm...cemne ea? by this level, firstly, she has to stop thinking just by her own way or behavior - has to make some differences like stop asking him too much for
what you want nor hoping that he 'meets
your demands' - otherwise this will 100% guarantee he won't want to give you what you're looking for...betul! inilah beza 'ego she' ngan 'ego he'.

Ceh! cam tak adil je bunyi nye as she looks like has to susah2 usaha sorang2 plak! for us girls memang la fikir camni, but for guys, ini adalah menarik! alaaa...same as kalau kite girls tengok guys do the same, usaha, kan menarik jugak bagi kite :p tak gitu? It's just that the ways in how to develope great situation/relationship are different between she and he...and these differences yang kalau salah faham or tak clear maka available to lead to 'fight'. Whatever sekalipun, just remember, don't do something that can KILLS the attraction of both might be feeling for each other.
Oh! need to stop...will be continue soon!

p/s be honest about what you want
p/s2 kan aku dah cakap dari dulu lagi, same jer both she and he...kan Amir! ^_^
p/s3 pening plak aku nak menulis bila campur bahasa ni, membawa kpd salah faham tatabahasa.

Come on guys!!

ahahahaa...I've received this 'data sheet' from someone, walla...no matter what, guys will keep on searching for girls okay...! and so do vice versa ;)

New episode!? ^_^

First of all, Happy happy new year 2008 for everybody! ^_^
and as usual, I'm sure most of us will step up to this new year with...
hmmm...with something new, some changes in self furthermore in life! :D right? yup I'm sure altho not all of us have new thing to be thinking of :p
For myself, of course! I have new vision and mission to be working for...it's hard! but I'll try to make it as smart and simple and cool as I always do,
and I admit, I've also need to step up into something better inside myself,
for my own good, and for people around me,
and also of course, especially for some important people who are somebody for me,
who always want me to do some changes and improvements in myself! ^_^ thanks for those and I do love all of you! ^_^ well, you know who you are to me right!? :p

Not to forget, I'm sorry for all my faults to all of you,
no matter what's the faulty is to you :p I'm sorry...
so, let step-up our life into the new episode!
and good luck in order to make this new episode better and the best! Cheers!! ^_^

p/s in my new episode, I wanna make my blog ikut suka hati aku la! ahaks! just assume that I've added new language into my blog that is 'bahasa melayu pasar'! Walla! :D
p/s2 thanks Azah for the new year celebration at your new house! cheerful! hehehe...nok gamba!
p/s3 hepi hepi when I met some old friends especially Norlee & Aya + hubby ^_^

Apologizing?

I said I'm sorry,
but you just say 'tengoklah'...
that's cool! so 'tengoklah!'
damn I never ever feeling this guilty in me,
and congratulation coz U did make me feel so,
it's not fair enough actually,
when we're together with anybody or somebody,
in this kind of problematic situation,
we cant just thinking in one way,
we also have to put ourselves in that other body,
and think in our way...not just by my own way, neither yours...then, it comes to good communication skills.
and now make me think of my fav book from John Gray - Men from Mars, Women from Venus.
men came with their own language and so did women,
when both met in Earth, damn it's not easy to understand each others! yes, it's totally correct thou!
moreover when both are in any problematic case...
no matter how good one of you in communication,
but when it comes to FALSE translation...further
lead to misunderstanding and not-'what I mean'-definition, go on to 'fight'! This is the main problem with these 2 creatures from Mars and Venus...and once again, it's so damn true, GOOD COMMUNICATION SKILLS!
not to forget, plus with good understanding...
oh! don't misjudge by assume that I'm talking about LOVE case here...it's just on talks between men and women...but if u still want to relate it to LOVE, honestly, I've to add one more word - COMPLICATED!
true! It'll be more over complicated, not just for woman, but also for man thou! it's true...just think of it by urself...I'm sure U'll realised it sooner or later.

p/s Thanks Amir for giving me chance to accompany you to Melaka, and I did love our talks-of-that-some-cases! ahahahahahahhh! I love to talk to you thou! U give me double steps out of the general box!
p/s2 thanks to my beloved Watt for ur cares on me as one stubborn, disobedient and quite-naughty person fren of yours :x
p/s3 I love you my sist Along Azi! =)
p/s4 not to forget, thanks to Baem for the dinner+talks ^_^

New steps journey ^_^

oh, oh! wallalalala...
tired but so damn happy today!
y? becoz of tried along new way from KB to KL,
for the 1st time in me, I've took thru Grik ^_^
along the way I've fully enjoying myself with the surrounding environment full of beautiful sceneries! OMG! I LOVE IT ALL!
so, together with my BEE and my IXUS70,
speeding up the hill to Puncak Titiwangsa,
stop whenever I can,
with the main target to snap the spur moments of beautiful-ness which so damn irresistible for just to have a look! OMG again!
stop! snapped! plus resting physical, mind and soul...
uurrgghhh! damn I'll take this way again next and next and next time soon ^_^
what I love other that the perfect best sceneries along the journey was that...
when I entered the highway,
It's time to speeding!!! ahahahahhaa...
yup, speeding is one of the best way I always spent with my BEE, especially to release tension or even sadness!? ahaks! by the way...thank to the red Jazz and black Civic for keep on speeding together (caya gak la auntie which drove the Jazz!) [oh BEE, u r welcome! I did it coz I love u, and of cos I know that's ur family! hehehee.. :D]
the journey which started at 8am+ end up at 5pm+...
not to forget, thanks to Cik Eli for accompanied me, and together laughing thru the journey!

p/s thanks to frens who responded to my sms told u that I've safely arrived...
p/s2 to u who don't know the right way to response, thanks for the 'fight'...no matter what, sorry and I love u.

ALL YOU NEED IS LOVE

Uurgghhh!! I want to! I want to! Across The Universe! my most-wanted-waiting- for-so-long musical film! Musical film which combined 34 Beatles's songs!

Let me write down the synopsis of this movie - It's a whimsical and highly theatrical, brings some senses of romance and whimsy especially to the unique musical - is an original movie musical springing from the imagination of renowned director Julie Taymor, and written by Dick Clement and Ian La Frenais, that incorporates 34 compositions written by members of The Beatles. Stories that combined love stories - romances develop between Lucy and Jude, and between Sadie and Jojo, set against the backdrop of the 1960s. The star-crossed lovers, Jude (Jim Sturgess) and Lucy (Evan Rachel Wood), along with a small group of friends and musicians, are swept up into the emerging anti-war and counterculture movements. Tumultuous forces outside their control ultimately tear the young lovers apart, forcing Jude and Lucy to find their own way back to each other – against all odds. A lot of singing, dancing, sentimental mimics, sentimental gestures played by the actors. The music in this film consists exclusively of songs made popular by The Beatles during the time period depicted in the movie.

So, whatever it is, I'm gonna free myself for this movie, as soon as I can! I've waiting for long enough. Let's watch it thou! ^_^

p/s end up watching this movie was like fully enjoyed the concert of The Beatles! ^_^ GREAT!

Devastated...

terribly upset!?
huhuhuu...it's not me actually,
but some of my close friends,
they are devastated! inconsolable...
brokenhearted...overwhelmed,
some of them, they lost something,
some because of can't get what they want,
some got what they don't want to have,
but most of them because of the loves stories,
and I just listening...and advising,
let's bygone be bygone,
we learn from the good and bad past...
we have to go with the flow...
don't force yourself in anything or everything!
do not compare this and that, past and beyond, u and me,
don't always hope for all the perfect things!
do not hope to be that perfect! because I'm sure nobody can be prefect...
nothing can be perfect!
just choose to be in simple-wonderful life,
and go with the flow...just, go with the flow...

p/s because of this inconsolable issues, I would like to dedicate the BSB's song - Inconsolable ^_^ to all of u and me...


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Motivating...fight! ^_^

Lately, I'm feeling like I'm weak and I've less motivates inside of me,
sometimes tired because of driving here and there, and dealing with these and that people!
but thanks God, mostly I always enjoying my driving time with my beloved BEE ^_^
can be say I'm resting during I'm driving, while listening to the musics I love,
but don't worry, it's still enough for me to keep on strong,
our life is up and down like a wheel thou...
part of the time we are cheerful, and parcel of it we are in melancholy,
does it sounds interesting!? heheh...lets fight!!
so, now it's look like I need to renew my vision and mission,
because, what we want in life keep on changing due to the time...
u always need some guidelines for yourself to keep on moving in your life,
furthermore in making your life better and prosper and happier!
I need to inject some strong-positive-waves into my mind,
and put some pressures for my self to push-up my capabilities,
and gain-up my possibilities especially in doing unusual kinda thingy :D
hait! come and fight!! q(^_^)p hohohooo...
we need to be serious in certain-important topics in our life,
we don't need to care about unnecessary thoughts from unnecessary peoples,
just always assume that we are different from others,
if you think others are good, we can be better!
if you think that you are bad, there are lots lots of peoples out there are more bad than you!
don't you think so? fight! fight! :D
for me, what I always choose is to be moderate,
moderate and try to keep on moderate,
to be good is good! to be better is better! ^_^
to be success today is not with today's works, it comes from previous times arduous works,
the today's steps are for the future, to complete the visions and missions,
when we start stepping, means we want to step-up in our life,
so...fight for it! and God will guides and blesses us!
for me, there is no failure, only delay on the road for our successes!
and at the end, we can taste the sweetness of the accomplishments, victory! ^_^
insyaAllah...step-up! fight! hooyeeaaa! q(^_^)p gambarimasho!

Out of cave for BEE!

Walla! Firstly, sorry for some of you out there who's searching or looking or try contacting-but-got-no-answer for me...sorry coz lately I'm in my cave, not hiding but in the processes of settling something important. I hope you can understand and thanks in advance!
Actually last nite I've plan to meet up with my best-anime-frens who else if not Shah and Asri but becoz of Asri's working today so we postponed it to next week when everybody is free. So, I think of keep staying in my cave but today, I'm walk out, for a while, becoz of someone special successfully drag me out! Thanks thou, I dont know why you always dare and win in 'fighting' with me and my unruliness! you are the only person who able to 'order' me! ahaks! Thanks to you thou.
So, I went to Sunway Piramid and so so fun especially while watching my latest-most-wanted-to-watch movie --> the Bee Movie!! ^_^ The first reason why I totally wanna watch this movie is becoz I have BEE, my BEE. And the 2nd why is it's cartoon in black & yellow, my fav colors! hehehee...I'm serious all of you better watch this Bee Movie, it's fun! really cool! you'll not regret for it thou! all the audiences LOL! Chow now...

p/s for you, thank you ^_^ today you brighten-up my day! another special day!
p/s2 for Lat & Ida, enjoy the Bekelah trip, without me, okay...huhuhuuu...

only YES or NO!

why u wanna fill in yourself with troubles?
when it's just YES or NO,
why you let yourself so confusing?
when it's just YES or NO,
why you still keep on reasoning?

YES,
it's just actually really only YES or NO,
it's the fact!
you only have to choose between YES or NO,
so just select YES!
and fully go on with YES!
NO more NO!

NO,
when NO is selected,
make sure there is NO to YES,
just go on when you say NO,
and NO turning back...with NO regret...

Still wanna stay on delay?
why? keep on reckoning?
and what are you waiting for?
YES you have no time
and NO, please don't wait anymore..
Now, can you choose YES or NO?

Lying & Smiling ^_^

kah! kah! kah! =D today is a bad day for me! not really bad but quite 'bad', because for today, I'm lying, giving an intentional untruth answer when people ask me...and because of that lie, I'm smiling! ^_^ ahaks! I'm not sure the people to whom I gave the lie to, either they aware or not that I'm lying, and because of this reason also make me smiling! I'm smiling for the reason that I'm lying...quite 'bad' right? Why I'm lying? I think mostly because I'm fade-up with the question, and why people love to ask this question? Maybe because I'm female & still young & can be say 'good looking' & have a friendly kinda style...well, I'm Geminian thou! :p So, for the whole day I'm smiling when I alert that I lied! I never ever give this answer before this thou! Never! So, today can be say the 1st day and the 1st time I told people who asked, the wrong answer...erroneous! Ahaks! I'm straying from what is moral today...I'm lying! and I'm sorry, altho this sorry is actually not really needed thou...walla!

p/s Conclusion - do not lie again! or you'll be smiling non stop!
p/s2 I said I'm married! ^_^

uhuk! "(@_@)

huhuhuuu...have u ever think of me...?
I mean u, yes u who are reading what I wrote here,
have u? or u just read out this post becoz of...something else?
not becoz of me? uhuk! uhuk!
it's okay...actually it's really okay...
it's just that...
I'm thinking of is there anybody thinking of me when I'm thinking of them!?
ahaks! whatever, nothing much important here,
and nothing less important too...
means...nothing! huhuu...
sometime u think u can take care of everybody,
mostly all the time u do taking care of everybody,
as caring as u are and as u can...but...
some of the times, u yourself need to be take care of!
have u ever take care of yourself?
or has anybody that u taking care of taking care of u too?
or...don't u feel like, it's better if...
u don't have to take care of anybody and nobody has to care of u too!?
it's free to free, or win to win situation! right?
don't u think so?
uhh! never mind, just read then ignore it all,
it's just a release for my mind to write out anything it want me to express it out,
that's all! Walla!

Power of FOREX II

Walla! Now I'm in the mood of answering to the question : what's the REAL FOREX that I refer to.Honestly, I knew that most of you who's asking me related to this topic were actually some victims of the bullshit-online-investment kinda programs which most of it has been blocked by our governments firewall :p What I can sure of is, it's totally absolutely different!

FOREX (short term for Foreign Exchange) is real-time buying of one currency and selling of another currency. It's like you purchase money with money, you both give and get money - two transactions (buying and selling) are happening at the same time. FOREX is considered one of the biggest financial - trading markets in the world which allows people to trade one currency for another and make a profit by trying to determine which currency's value will increase by the end of a determined time - for example the trader set fifteen minutes after placing the investment --> e.g: One could calculate and assume that by 8pm the US Dollar will be worth more than the Euro or Yen. FOREX trading may sound daunting at first, but the basics are quite simple. To start with, the first currency listed is called the "base currency" and it's usually the US Dollar. The traders will usually pit the USD against another currency. For example, a quote of USD/JPY 2.34 means that one USD is equal to 2.34 Japanese Yen. When the USD is the base unit and a currency quote goes up, it means the USD has increased in value and the other currency has weakened. Means when the USD/JPY quote is 2.50, then the USD is stronger because it can buy more Japanese Yen.

Wahahah...I hope my introduction, or just say definition of real FOREX above can be understandable orait ^_^ So, as a conclusion: if a currency quote goes higher, this increases the value of the base currency. A lower quote means the base currency is weakening. And before I end up this time, FYI : The Forex market is open 24 hours, five days a week (not much market activity during weekends) so you can go ahead and trade day or night or anytime except weekends. Walla!

p/s Below you will find the Market Hours in Eastern Standard Time (EST) for four of the world’s largest financial centers:

• Tokyo Market Hours: 7:00 pm to 4:00 am EST
• New York Market Hours: 8:00 am to 5:00 pm EST
• London Market Hours: 3:00 am to 12:00 noon EST
• Sydney Market Hours: 5:00 pm to 2:00 am EST

p/s2 If you wanna learn how to play with this real FOREX go to REAL FOREX

eToro.com - The Ultimate Forex Trading Experience!

Tips for mobile users!

Lately, there's lots of report regarding the lost of hand phones or stolen mobile phones. So, must be everybody who's related to this issue feel so damn in bullshit mood especially if the mobile that they lost is expensive or latest new model :p I'm sure I'm right on this!

So, now, one of the way, let say tip for you out there so that "if I can't use that phone, so do you! damn you!"...what I mean here is, all missing or stolen hand phones actually can be deactivated and can no longer be used even when the SIM card being replace with other new SIM card. Wanna know how? I do think some of you already knew this way. Just one easy way.

1) on your phone
2) type *#06#
3) jot down & save the 15 digits number that u get, this is the IMEI number of your phone.

IMEI = International Mobile Equipment Identity

Then, next step, report to your respective telco, in Malaysia - Celcom or Maxis or Digi or latest U-Mobile (aka MITV). Once they get your IMEI number, they'll deactivated, means that they'll disabling the hand phone. So as the conclusion, the stolen hand phones will be useless!

I can explain more in how they - the operators - can deactivated the phone, because I'm working in telco playground, but because of this also, I've limit to talk about it :p What I just can explain is, once they got your IMEI no, they will analyse their traffic and search for the targeted IMEI and once they catch it, they'll block all the operation or transmission related to that phone with the targeted IMEI no. Means that, the phone now has been deactivated - useless --> cant be used anymore because every time they switch on their phone using any SIM card, their IMEI will be detected in the traffics by the operator related to the SIM card and once the operator block the IMEI from passing their network means that that phone is useless, disabled. Walla!

Special day on 21/10/2007! ^_^

wow! I'm so cheerful! Today, Sunday 21/10/2007, what a special day in my life, hehehe...does it sound like I got married today? Of course no, but something change in me & in my life...and this changing condition of me, maybe gonna affect, will be affected, all my other thingy surrounding me, along my life, will affect my family, my friends, instead of only myself...this time it sounds like a huge change right? the answer is yes, big life change for myself. And honestly, it's a big responsibility for me to go on with this change, and all other will-be-following-changes after this...but, for these whole changes, I'll fully accept it all and I'm totally happy with it all ^_^ and I'm serious of it all! I'm in one big commitment this time, and I've to put full trust in myself for this commitment! wow, I love this commitment! ^_^ another great challenge and I love it so!

Since now on, I'm totally in charge to take care of this special responsibility...each responsibility need some sacrifices. Please pray for me I can take care of this as well as I can =) Ameen.

p/s special thanks for the only one who dare to accept this life challenge with me. I love u so! We'll supporting each other for this commitment, together, ya...& happy birthday to you ;)

p/s2 on this time while I'm writing this post, only 6 people who already knows the change I made...hehehee...if U know, means U are special for me, and I love U ^_^ for others, U'll also know later...while this change is going on...walla!

p/s3 for my colleague, Amanda & her husband, happy 1 year anniversary to both of you, today! ^_^ I'm so excited, waiting to see your baby! soon! hihihii...

bLaugh! ^_^

Just think before you blog,
what will happen if u cannot think but
you still wanna blog out!? ahaks! ^_^
can we just blog without think before it?
what will happen if we do so?
i know i know...
it will be just writing down anything,
with just nothing :)

When I'm a lover... ^_^

What Kind of Girlfriend Are You?

My Result: Steady Supporter

Stand by your man — that's just something you naturally do. Once you've committed to a relationship, you are a constant companion who enjoys the comfort and stability that comes from being a couple. Not quick to judge, accuse, or think the worst, you have a lot of trust (in him and in yourself), and you rarely worry about where he is or who he's with.


For you, mutual respect is of utmost importance. You are comfortable and confident in your own skin, making you a great pillar of strength in all your relationships. Whether he's striving to climb a mountain or land a promotion, you have his back. Best part is, you know he's got yours too.

Take this test >

Power of FOREX

Hmmm...while celebrating Syawal in my grandma's house, suddenly I found something...one thing that keep on playing in my mind since quite long time enough! Walla! I've been studying of FOREX for such long period of time thou... Anything & everything of FOREX,

but 1st, don't be misunderstood okay,
this is not the 'tipu2' or 'what-so-ever' online FOREX which make lots of people bancrupted on last few months back, as been notifide in most of the newspapers during that time...no this is not 'that-kind-of-bullshit' FOREX okay...

Now, I just wanna say that I'm ready for it, I mean the real FOREX thou, and if...if there is anybody of you out there who wanna join me ^_^ just contact me if you have my contact number or just email me at dikaz.kyh@gmail.com for any further info regarding this REAL FOREX! but please...I'm not forcing you to believe me but...this is another REAL business and I'm doing it REAL...! ^_^
Before I end up this time, here I just put one of the thingee that related to this FOREX which can be say one of my info, quite long time ago, accidently found it in my way in learning FOREX. Just visit it for your info KuasaForex, other that contact me for details if you need it okay ;) Walla!

p/s thanks to my uncle! REAL FOREX

online by HSDPA aircard ^_^

walla! for the 1st time, today, while break fasting alone at home,
i'm online using Sierra wireless AirCard, which the price is quite half of my salary thou, together with my 3G sim card, now i'm on the net ;)
just finished writing on my multiply, followed by my Epitomes now ^_^ hehehe...
and while eating my well cook pasta alfredo! yummy!

Let's talk a bit about HSDPA, it's actually aka 3.5G in telco environment,
means that younger brother of 3G, but the youngest & latest one is HSUPA aka 3.75G playground =)
then gonna be followed by WiMAX...will be known as 4G network technology...
what's the difference between all these networks access is their speeds,
and also their supported areas, more latest more wider thou ^_^
maybe you should try on your own, then u can compare it well...
technologies in telco networks growing fast enough!
not yet all of us can or able to or has any chance using 3G,
now it's already up to 4G thou...and all the telco operators & vendors keep on chasing on it!
walla! q(^_^)p

HSDPA = high speed download packet access
HSUPA = high speed upload packet access
WiMAX = latest wireless broadband access

Waaa...love it! ^_^

huwaaa...on last 2 days, after I had my break fast,
in my auntie's best friend's house,
I watched one sweet touching Petronas advertisement,
after quite long time I haven't watch TV,
nearly 8 months I live without TV thou :p
I think this is the latest Petronas adv...
so so sweet! and I do think I know
who's the designer/choreographer of this adv ;)
let's put the tittle Percintaan Tan Hon Ming ^_^
just check it out! It's cute & sweet & I love it!
p/s Kanak-kanak pun memahami ^_^